Advice on dating a woman going through divorce
I would advise her to take some time away from men and dating and to find out who she is now that she is divorced, and to figure out what she wants for herself and her children, and to set out to accomplish some of her own goals.
You mention that she was worried there wouldn’t be physical chemistry with you.
Miss A, I am writing to you so that I can get some advice.
I thought maybe if I got a savvy woman’s perspective, it would be beneficial.
He traveled a good deal, so we had dinners, our children, her, and I.
She helped me with decorating, picking out clothes, and cooking….
all areas that as a single father, I was completely lost.
This is why she was able to open up to you about her problems with other men currently in her life.
Women who are attracted to a guy aren’t going to treat them like a girlfriend and chat about the other men in their life. I am shocked that you paid for her divorce attorney, and that she accepted that.
I’m not sure if you are familiar with Ladder Theory, but it sounds to me like this woman had you on her “Friend Ladder” and tried moving you over to the “Real Ladder”. It’s bad, but there are women out there who are able to stomach forcing themselves to have a physical relationship with men they aren’t attracted to in order to gain money, power and fame.
I feel badly for you, but she wasn’t truly emotionally available when you met her.
I’m also not sure that this woman is emotionally stable and prepared to have a relationship with anyone.
It was shortly after that bomb, that it dawned on me that Mrs. The guy she was having an affair with, dumped her, and went back to his wife.